I saw Scot

Yeah, I know..i've been lazy posting lately. However, i've had things to write about, just nothing i've that's made me jump to the computer to write about. Which is good, as this blog has been a filler for me in life when i've been bored, or haven't had much to do. Therefore, i've been good and active!

just got home from basketball..Alicia has been picking up the girls for me so I can play. REALLY appreciative of that. I don't think many people would want to be in a relationship with a devoted father of two girls, let alone make the sacrifices she does to help them out. Pretty unique if you ask me. Oh, and we won...finally. My team sucks, but it's good to get out .....

The one question i've been asked a LOT is what did i think of Scot's wedding? And, the long and the short of it is really simple. I miss Scot and his friendship. He was one of my best friends and frankly, since he's been engaged and at the wedding, it's felt like he only has communicated with me, and our other close friends out of necessity and out of want. Which, when around him, translates into awkwardness. I have lots of instances I could say, that may not even be on his radar, but the bottom line is, i hope the kid is happy, and i hope, someday, he'll want to be friends again.

I saw him last week..him and his dad were driving down the road and waved to me..caught me off guard and i just flashed a half heartedly surprised wave back. Then it dawned on me...that may be the last time i see him. Which, i also thought at the wedding, so, who knows.

My big summer projt this year is building a retaining wall/planters box around my deck. Well, i'm not so much as my handyman Jim is. Having him doing it saving me over a thousand dollars from what a co-worker's brother was gonna charge me. Advantage: JJ. It's gonna pretty much rock. I need to do Sooooo much stuff for the house yet, but it's slooooowly coming along. It's still pretty much a bachelor pad with kids toys everywhere, but it's mine...and that' a-ok in my book. I have to admit, i never thought i'd enjoy decorating or planning things like planters boxes and paint schemes...but man, time really does change all.

Shelly just finished her dance recital! She'd been taking a dance class every saturday and the recital was last week...several good stories with that...which will be mynext post!!! With pics...i hope