The Divorce

Well, it's done. Yesterday. REally, it was anti-climatic. All the buildup to the day and it just kinda came and went. Shan came over the nite before for me to sign everything..and the next day she went to the judge ( i didn't have to go) and she approved it all and it was done. I have to be honest, i had lots of mixed emotions. Relief..to be done with that awful process..sadness in that i know the girls have some struggles with all the transition..anger that there's lots of BS associated with it and joy and excitement to start a new chapter in my life. it's been a very hard year for me..and i'm really looking forward to the next phase of it.